Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Da Kine Life





The Hawaiian word for anything you aren't quite sure about or can't remember, a "watchamacallit", is called "Da Kine." That's the best that I can describe my life right now- I can't really describe it! These last two months have seriously been insane, and full of many emotions including joy, love, friendship, disappointment, stressrelaxation, and hope. So, I can't pinpoint one specific feeling of the last couple months of my life here in Hawaii. One thing I do know is that it has been a great learning experience as always. But I have been extremely busy, which explains why it's been so long since I posted!

I have definitely had a lot of fun this semester and have made some great friends. We've gone on little hikes, gone to Turtle Bay for beach days and volleyball, made many little trips to Haleiwa, girl's nights into Honolulu (with way too much shopping), dance parties, taking my friends surfing, kayaking, and had a great Halloween weekend. For Halloween we had our friend DJ for us and we had a rockin' dance party at our house! It was a ton of fun. We also spent the other nights that weekend at other dance parties and went into Honolulu which was completely packed with thousands of people dressed up in the sweetest costumes. I spent the weekend switching back and forth between being Audrey Hepburn and a lion :) 

I've done so much and been involved in so many things I can't even believe that it's already November... And it doesn't help that we don't really have seasons here, so it doesn't even feel like Fall! But let me tell you- it has definitely gotten "colder" here, whatever that means haha. The other day I was absolutely freezing at the FoodFest, so I looked at my phone to see what the temperature was and it only said 71 degrees! I mean it was rainy and windy but I never thought I'd see the day when I thought that 71 degrees is cold haha. I'm definitely nervous for when I come home for Christmas now... I mean I hope it snows but that will definitely be a rough transition. 

My classes are all actually pretty interesting this semester. I'm taking classes that go towards my major of International Cultural Studies so I'm loving my Anthropology and Communications classes- which is a good sign. I will say though that I will never take 18 credits again,and as much as that keeps me busy, I love it so or try to avoid taking that many as much as possible. Some good news is that I just received a full academic scholarship for next winter and summer semesters, which is such a blessing and such a relief. Woo! I'm also in the Relief Society presidency in our ward now, much. Each week we visit different sisters in the ward and get to know them better and let me just say that there are so many awesome girls in our ward! They have such strong spirits and most are such hard workers and have such strong testimonies. 

One girl really impressed me with her story: She grew up in Hong Kong and when she was 16 she was really struggling. She always walked past the LDS church building a couple blocks from her house and one day she decided she would go to church the next sunday. So she just went, and then the missionaries greeted her, she was baptized a month later, then came to BYU-Hawaii two months later and won't return home for three years until she graduates. Wow. I love that, and there are so many interesting stories of international girls here, I love it. I also love being involved with the sisters in need, because it makes me forget about my problems and my life, and to focus on doing whatever I can to make other's lives better. And really, that's what a lot of people are about here in Hawaii, to follow and have the "Spirit of Aloha." Love it.

This last week became a little interesting for me as well. Last Tuesday, I was with my friend Cassie and we had just dropped her boyfriend John off at his house, so I stayed in the backseat because Cassie was taking me home and dropping me off. We were stopped to turn into my house waiting for cars to clear up going the opposite direction, when a van behind us rear-ended us at 40 mph. WHOA. It was a bit freaky to say the least. The car was totaled, Cassie hit her head on the steering wheel, and I had all of that force slammed into my back because I was in the back seat. So now we're recovering and figuring out insurance and doctors appointments, but because I had a priesthood blessing right after the accident, I know my back injury is much less serious than it could have been. This is just another experience that made me be so grateful for the life I have and to remember to live each day to it's fullest and to be as righteous as I can. It also made me realize how much I am loved, and therefore how much I love others. Along with this though came the wrath of Marci, my landlord. We've had many, many issues with her this semester and this time she freaked out about two crashed cars on her property. So without any yucky details, she was extremely rude and didn't even care about us or our safety after the accident and so now I really don't feel comfortable living in her house, so we'll see if I can find something new in a month and a half- eeek! As much as it stinks that all of that had to happen, I'm grateful for it and the many things I'm learning from it all :)


Me, Beth, Destiny, and Natalia.



Laie temple at night.


Looking away from the temple.


My friends surfing!


Colby, me, and Devin Norton- who is my friend Kyle's little brother from back home in Reno!


View from Pupukea Trails


The sunrise on my side of the island is breathtaking every morning.


Hello, my name is Audrey Hepburn.


Hello, my name is CaroLion! And that's my ballerina friend Destiny.


Me and my friend James kayaking at Waimea bay, before we rode in a HUGE wave into shore!








Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Berthaliki Kekoa Nui


Destiny, Kaylyn, Me and Lindsay at our beach :) Hukilau!

     Three words: I am back...! I am back in my paradise and completely content. But don't get me wrong, I had such an amazing time at home for those seven weeks!  I really got to do so much and spend so much quality time with my friends and family and I wouldn't have traded those seven weeks for anything! But I do feel so glad to be back in Hawaii. It's just so healthy for me here and I feel like I can breathe again :)


     So right before I left, we made our trip to San Francisco and not only dropped my car "Bertha" off to be shipped to Honolulu, but we got to do all of my favorite things that northern California offers to me. This includes: Pier 39, crepes, shopping in Vacaville for great deals, hotel, hotel pool (with fun games with Chase haha), Ghirardelli Square for dark chocolate hot fudge sundays, french bakery, Muir Beach, Stinson Beach, and In 'N Out to wrap it all up. As you can tell, we like food in my family a little.... I've made pretty much this exact trip at least four times before but I know it will never get old for me! And for me, Muir Beach and Stinson beach are some of my favorite places in the whole world. They just make me so happy! I guess I just love beaches, so it's good I live at one.


     Since I've been back, life has been crazy but crazy good as well! I got back on September 8 and the fun started that day! It was so nice to be here without being in classes for a couple days. It was a little interesting getting back into the groove of living on an island and everything, and coming back to my friends who had been here while I was gone. But then classes started and I felt right at home and really just back into my lifestyle here. This semester is kind of crazy because I'm taking 18 credits and still working at the Alumni Relations Office... but I can do it! I'm taking Business 180 Commerce and Enterprise, Anthropology, Doctrine and Covenants, History 202, Biology, Communications, and a Entrepreneurship lecture class. It really is a lot but I think it will be manageable and I'm actually liking most of them so far, they're interesting! 


     But forget the boring stuff! First of all- my CAR came!! It finally arrived! I've had it for a little over a week now and I'm in heaven. At first her name was "Bertha," but now that she's a Hawaiian her name is "Berthaliki Kekoa Nui" haha, which Amber says means "Bertha who has traveled over many great waters.." I'm so extremely grateful for it, it's changed my life for sure. Everything is now much more convenient, it saves a lot of time, and I have the whole island to explore now. So with the help of having my car, I've already had three spectacular weekends here, all consisting of: huge bonfires, Waimea Bay, Seasider volleyball games, Kahuku Grill (yum!), crazy dance on campus, Kahuku Red Raiders football game, girl's night, swimming in the ocean at two in the morning, opening social at Hukilau, two nights in Honolulu with all the girls doing some crazy shopping, "planking," fun FHE's, and most importantly: meeting a bunch of new people and making great new friends! My house is seriously so fun this semester too because we have ten girls between the two units and we all get along so it's such a blast all the time! 


     On top of all of the crazy good times I've had already, I feel like I have gone through a lot here too already. I was pretty stressed the first couple of weeks for a few reasons, but I really learned a lot during that time and I'm still learning a lot. What I've learned most though is how much Heavenly Father loves me. Through my little struggles I had, I was blessed with so many people who really took time to care for me and help me out, and it was because of my prayers to Heavenly Father for help. So I saw His love through everyone who was there for me. I also learned that the best way to free yourself from your "issues" is to forget yourself and go to work, like President Hinckley's dad said! I have found that when I'm serving others I forget myself and my worries or wants or needs. Then I'm so much happier all of the time! Plus I figured that if I'm so grateful for His love, I should share that love with everyone else. I'm so grateful for this gospel and for my Heavenly Father who loves me so much and for the opportunity I have to do his work and do what I need to to become closer to Him. The other really important thing I've learned is that I need to be more confident and happy with who I am, and that I need to live my life with a positive attitude and hope that I will be taken care of if I'm doing what's right. 


     I'm so grateful for this life I live here in Hawaii! It's such a perfect fit for me here. I love the people and the mentality and the "Spirit of Aloha." So yes, I am SO glad to be back and am looking forward to this semester and the adventures it brings! Here are some pictures from the last couple of weeks! 



Manzy's Birthday party!


Destiny, Kaylyn, Tasha, Me, and Lindsay at Waimea!


Beautiful Day at Waimea :)


Destiny and Me at Waimea.


Lauren, Lindsay, Me, Destiny, (Steve), Tasha, Kaylyn, and Lexi at the delicious Kahuku Grill!


Big group at Kahuku Grill for a birthday.


Best "Family Home Evening" group ever!


Tasha, Destiny, Lindsay, and Me.


Kylie,Tasha, Lexi, Kaylyn, and Me at KAHUKU FOOTBALL!


Top to bottom: Tash, Me, Destiny, and Rachel "planking" in Sears.. haha so much fun!


Wednesday, August 31, 2011

Love. Life.


Kaylani, Rebecca, Manzy, and Me at Hukilau Beach across the street from my house :)

Time to update I guess.... it's only been like three months. Woops. But life has just gone by so fast!! Which is definitely a good thing.

Okay so I love life in Hawaii. So much. I tell everyone that I don't think I've been anywhere else where it's more of a fit for me. I've had so many awesome adventures there and made so many close friends. What I think I love the most though is the mentality and how people live in Hawaii. Their priorities are so right! Everyone loves everyone, there's no judging, family/friends come first, no gossiping, no comparing materialistic things, and only the really important things are actually important! I just feel like my whole life I've been searching to live that way, and now I get to, which is such a breathe of fresh air.

I've really had such a blast in Hawaii and loved every minute of it. Below are some pictures from some of my grand adventures. On July 20th I flew home, which was kind of crazy! It felt so weird when I got off the plane, even though I'd only been gone for four months. But I decided to come home for "First Term" for six weeks because I got offered work and we had three family reunions that I knew I didn't want to miss out on. When I got off the plane I couldn't breathe because of the elevation! And I was freezing even though it was 80-something degrees outside... it's just super dry compared to the humidity I'm used to. But I was glad to be home with family and friends of course.

At first I was a little sad and worried about coming home because I didn't want to get bored, which is pretty easy to do in Reno. But I have to say I haven't been bored once while here! That probably has something to do with the fact that I made 2 road trips to Idaho and Utah and had one Altom reunion, one Bench reunion, and one immediate family reunion. Also, my best friend Danny was conveniently home so I got to actually spend a lot of time with her, which I was so glad about because we haven't got to spend much time together in awhile. Chase and Lauren and Maddox were also home for all of August because Chase needed to study for his second step of board exams for medical school, which he just took last week. So I got to spend a lot of time with Lauren and Maddox which was so much fun!! We spent a lot of time at Lake Tahoe, which was much needed :)

I can't believe it's already been six weeks and that in a week from tomorrow I'll be heading back to my paradise. Tomorrow we're actually making a trip to San Francisco to go drop my car off at a port to be shipped to Hawaii! That will change my life so much over there, it will give me so much freedom. I also love San Francisco and we're going to Stinson Beach too, which is one of my favorite places ever, so I'm excited to make this last little trip! Here are (a lot of) pictures from the last couple weeks:

That's me on top of the cliff about to jump! This is right next to the highway.

Me and Amber at Laie Temple when she came to visit.

Christian (being goofy), Rebecca, Chad, Alex, Isaac, Me, Manzy, and Atif- all amazing friends!

We hiked to this beach and camped on it! Yokohama Bay.

So gorgeous.
Mike (our friend from Sweden), John, Me, Christian, and Alex on our way back from the bay.

Sam, Henry, and Luke. So precious.

Our tent in the backyard for the Altom immediate family reunion.

Yes, that is all of my family. Love Lake Tahoe.

Besides the weird nose I have from the sun in this pic, I'd say I look like my siblings... not!

Me and Lauren at Swensen's. yum.

Maddox's famous "Elvis Face" haha.

In Minnetonka Caves at the Bench Family Reunion in Bear Lake. Awesome!

The Three Amigos! a.k.a. Danny, me, and Chance at Parker's band CRUSH('s) concert.

Thursday, June 9, 2011

I'm Living in Paradise...

Waimea Bay


Okay so I realized today that I hadn't blogged in forever, but guess what? I have an excuse! Because I'm living in paradise where everything is... let's just say... NOT in the fast lane. No, that's not an excuse for not blogging but still, I would definitely say I now live in "Hawaiian Time." And I'm definitely alright with that :)

So it's time to update everyone (and myself) on what has been going on in my life the last two (almost) months! To begin with, let me just say that I have been loving every minute I've had here. From the start I met so many nice people who are kind and welcoming and just happy people. What an amazing feeling. I've also noticed that no one is judgmental here. Everyone accepts everyone, which is such a breath of fresh air. People here are simply happy, and I love it. That's how it should be.

I also love my ward and my Family Home Evening group, which is such a relief! The culture represented on campus is fascinating. It's such a great experience and eye-opener to be able to interact with people from across the world each and every day. I think it's so awesome that some of my best friends here are from China, Mexico, Pakistan, India, Hawaii, Japan, and Micronesia. I'm so grateful for the friends I have made here- for my FHE family, the girls in the house behind us, my roommates, the boys in the house behind us, and of course the boys in the red houses on beach side. I was instantly friends with all of them and our friendship grows each day. I am also SO grateful to Melany and Adam Lang, who have seriously been so helpful. They do Costco runs for me, or even take me along, and they're always so willing to help me out with anything I need.

I've already completed my first term here! It lasted six weeks, and in it I took History of Civilization to 1500, New Testament 1, and Fitness for Life. And I survived taking all of those courses crammed into those six weeks. As for New Testament- I absolutely loved that class and my teacher Elder Richard Draper was the best teacher I've ever had. He gave such great perspective and I was constantly learning something new and fascinating. He has written many books and articles, so I would suggest you look him up! :) As for History... let me say I'm extremely glad that class is over. I've now started by second term, where I'm taking English 201, New Testament 2, and get this: Achieving Eternal Marriage. HA! Don't worry, I'm not getting married anytime soon ;) Though it will be an interesting class with valuable stuff that I can definitely use for the future- keyword: future.

About three or four weeks after being here, my friends recommended me to their boss at the Alumni Relations Office, and I got the job. It's really a perfect job for me, because it's on my own time and only adds up to about 10 hours per week, so I can keep my grades up. And what I do is pretty cool too- I write articles about Alumni from BYU-Hawaii and what they are doing now. Those articles get sent out in a newsletter each month to over 17,000 people. What an addition to my resume! Don't worry, the articles I write are much more refined and professional than the writing you are seeing here in this blog ;)

Now for the fun stuff! And there's lots of it. I've been hiking, kayaking, snorkeling, swimming with sea turtles, parasailing, and of course I've been to the beach almost every single day :) I've also been able to make lots of trips exploring the island, to Honolulu for shopping and parasailing, to Haleliwa (mostly for "Haleiwa Eats," this amazing thai food place!), and to Waimea Bay where the sun shines the best! It seems like every day is an adventure. Especially when I take the bus... yikes! It's also an adventure when you consider the weather. I swear its less predictable than Reno weather! It will be absolutely gorgeous and sunny outside, and if someone told me it would be down pouring and thundering in less than two minutes, I wouldn't doubt it one second. It changes so fast and so often, but that also makes it more fun. Did I mention I absolutely live each day just to look outside my front window and gaze out at the ocean? Because I most definitely do.

My life has changed so much in the last year. I've learned and grown so much. But one thing I do know as fact after this last year is that Heavenly Father has a PLAN for me and that he will take control and lead and guide me to do whatever I'm supposed to, and to wherever I'm supposed to be. I have learned so much because of the places and people I have been specifically placed by, and for that I cannot even express an inkling of how grateful I am. I have definitely learned to just sit back and let Heavenly Father take the wheel, because He knows so much better than I. So, due to this, I will now be coming home for First Term, which is the end of July to the beginning of September. The idea came out of no where while talking to my mom one day, and from that everything has just worked itself out. It was stressful at first because that meant taking online classes, packing and storing everything, leaving my friends, and selling my housing contract. But, I found perfect online classes and I also realized that my roommate needed housing for first term, so that was easy. Now I will not only be in Reno during my absolute favorite time of the year in Reno, but I will also be home with all of my family and be able to see some of my best friends, save money, and work a little. It will be great!

I would say that I am living THE life. I feel more and more blessed each day. Yesterday I was on my walk/jog on the beach and the sunset was so beautiful that I actually laughed out loud to myself! I just honestly couldn't believe that I was there in that moment- thinking to myself, "What the heck am I doing here? What did I do to deserve this kind of amazing life?!"

So next Friday is going to be an extra awesome day, because Amber is coming to visit me!!! I can't believe it's happening, but it is! She will be here for five days, and I'm pretty sure it will be some of the best five days I'll have here- just like when my mom was here. Family is the best! Oh, I forgot to mention that my cousin from my mom's side Kaylani Setoki got back last week, so I'm pretty excited to start making memories with her. Life is so great right now and I can't believe I've already lived in paradise for two months.

Don't get too jealous now.....

Kayaking!

The Tower

PCC Falls Hike

Gorgeous sunrise after a very long night sleeping on the tower..

Parasailing in Honolulu!! SUCH an amazing experience!

PCC World Fireknife Competition

Cannolis for my birthday at Bucca Di Beppo's!

Yes, I'm 20 and I had Funfetti Cake...

Kaylani and Andrea

Rebecca and Alex

So beautiful.